Some
children, especially girls, enjoy shopping. But, do they enjoy shopping thrift stores? As
a single mother of two children (son & daughter), I was challenged with
staying home to watch the children, or bringing them along to shop thrift stores
for items to resell on eBay. To make thrift store shopping (thrifting) fun
for children, try these simple techniques:
1.
Give the children a few key items to look for. For example, show them a certain
name brand logo or a word on the designer label.
2.
While in the thrift store, use code words that only your family knows. Instead
of the children asking, “Hey Mom, can you sell this on eBay?” have them ask
something unrelated to eBay. For example, “Would Grandma like this?” (even if
it is a man's necktie).
3.
Never, ever call Goodwill, “Goodwill”. Due to the stigma attached to shopping
at Goodwill, refer to it as “Macy’s” or “Nordstrom”.
4.
Reward children with prizes. For younger children, reward them with a quarter
for each item that they found to resell. Pieces of candy (skittles, M&Ms, etc) may be used instead of quarters.
5.
Some children are competitive. My children created the “hunting game” to see
who could find the most items to resell. Reward the “winner” with a pick of
his/her choice: restaurant for lunch, movie, family activity, etc. We all know
that, in the end, Mom is the winner with the great thrift store finds!
6.
Allow the older children to bring electronic devices to listen to music. My
teenage daughter “works” better while listening/singing her favorite songs.
7.
Allow children to push their own shopping cart. Or, as my son likes to do, have
them hook the clothing in the back of their own collar.
8.
Plot the family's thrift store travels with your own version of Flat Stanley. The Flat Stanley project was created to facilitate youngsters
letter-writing by documenting the travels of paper cutout, Flat Stanley. Our
"Flat Stanley" is a plush stuffed sock monkey, named Ralph. Whether vacationing or taking a mini road trip, we
make it a point to stop at a Goodwill ("Macy's") or local thrift
store to photograph Ralph, the sock monkey. We document our thrift store travels with Ralph on the Piece
Of Scrap Facebook
Fan page.
9.
Limit the amount of time in the store. While an avid thrift shopper could spend
hours browsing clothing racks and shelves filled with toys and household items,
limit the time spent thrift shopping with the children to no more than 2 hours.